I was in a bar making a list of friends I'd lost touch with and, inspired by
Garofalo's Genealogy of Pop/Rock Music chart, I started sketching a chart of my friends over time. A little odd I agree, but for sure its an interesting way of showing a pattern in something that you don't usually see patterns in. Goes to show that even in areas where there doesn't appear to be any 'data', there is plenty there if you choose to look for it!
I got home and knocked out some quick charts in Excel. Here's the top-level view by 'source' of friend:

You'll see that I sadly haven't kept in touch with my school friends very well. They are on my call list for the next couple of months! University provided the most friends. And I'd say that the decent tail on the blue blob means that I've done a pretty good job of keeping up with them. Doing this helped me make a list of people I unfortunately haven't kept in touch with, though.
Here's the friend-level chart that created the top-level version:

This is comprised of actual friend-level data. I'm not going to label this version, because I KNOW I've missed people. This was done in a rush. But here it is, FYI. Please don't try to work out who is who, since some small categories are combined even here!
Finally, here's the chart that inspired me. Pretty impressive stuff!
This is really interesting David. I've been planning on doing something like this for a while. I'm afraid that since getting married almost all my friend blocks have tailed off nearly to zero... New Years resolution is to be a little less loved up make more time for friends! What was the raw date you used for this, your own guestimates at the amount of time you'd spent with different friends or were you able to use quantify number/length of emails, calls and face-time? (that would be a bit geeky, but its something I've always wondered about doing as the number of my friends increases with time and the amount of free time I have decreases - one has to ratio and prioritise, however inhuman that might sound!)
ReplyDeleteI manually put numbers between 1 and 5 in a spreadsheet for each friend for each quarter over the period. It only took, perhaps an hour. The blank spreadsheet is up here http://beglen.googlepages.com/070105friendsdiagramBLANK.xls.
ReplyDeleteIf all email accounts were consolidated it would be possable to automate something to do this. And I used to do it be call length and by number of smss when Orange used to spit out csv files. And when I wansn't as busy at work :)
But that all leaves the most important one: face time. So I think doing it manually is the only way to get a good answer out.
Yeah, I remember you doing that at NPC!
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking for years that someone should create a some friendship management software, a lighter version of corporate Client Mananagements systems. It could import and sort data from phones and emails (weighing them by length and by recipients - e.g. long individual emails counting more than mass forwards to groups) and take in appointment data from your calender as well to estimate face time, as well as allowing you to add in data manually of course....